There are women who date older men for different reasons but mostly
because of the man's success, his sense of accomplishment and sophistication. This is
blatantly obvious. Nothing is wrong with this choice, however, as it is a personal
preference that cannot be denied works for a lot of women.
For some women, it is
preferable to date an older man who is intelligent, mature and knows exactly what he
wants.
Women date older man for more reasons than one. In most cases, a younger woman will date an older man because she loves the money that he can provide for an improved lifestyle. In other cases, she is with him because she considers him to be more mature, accomplished, and successful. Some older men might be looking for a companion, don't want any commitment and willing to pamper and spoil her. And those are some of the reasons for her mature choice in men.
Have you ever heard this saying before, "certain things will get better as you age?" Well, this is certainly true as it relates to dating older men. If you are younger woman and you are interested in dating an older man who may be ten to twenty years your senior, it can be a very rewarding experience; one that you will learn a lot from. You will be able to create good memories as long as the relationship works out for both of you. In fact, this kind of relationship could turn into one of commitment and become a solid foundation for you in a financial sense. It all depends on what the older man is looking for in a younger woman.
Oftentimes, the older man wants a younger woman to become a companion to him. And the younger woman wants to take advantage of this because in many cases, the older man will want her to travel all over the world with him. This allows her to gain the experience that she would never have gained had she dated a younger man. He will take her to fancy restaurants sometimes and this is also something the younger man may not be able to afford. He will buy her occasional gifts as a way to show his appreciation for her companionship. This is something that many women look forward to.
Yes, dating that older man could work out to be an engaging experience for the younger woman and it can be filled with lots of perks, more than is imaginable. While romance could be the main driving force, the allure and reassurance are the next two best things. The younger woman has a reassurance that her needs might be possibly met by this older man. She loves the allure and sophistication of dating someone who has already achieved certain things in life already. He may also be well established and bring with him an air of elegance that is captivating. He might also have already mastered the art of kindness, care and courteousness. The older man may be well-mannered and know how to speak to a woman. You will probably not hear the phrase, 'let's hang with each other,' like what you may expect in certain younger men. He may be assertive and direct and not want to play games as younger men do. He is well intentioned and knows what he wants and also passionate about different things in life. The younger woman relishes these things and so these are some of the reasons why she would date an older man.
With an older man, the younger woman will be in a space of certainty and not unsure of where to go on a date to stay within a budget. She may be tired of going on those dates with a younger man where she has to foot half of the bill because he doesn't have enough money. With an older man, this may not be the case. She expects to be wined and dined. He will also be courteous enough to leave a tip and not think anything of it.
It is safe to say that older men have more confidence than younger men do. Why? Well, they have overcome all those youthful lack of confidence and so they are more than likely to emanate ease and comfort that younger women prefer. In so doing, they will create a fun and enjoyable atmosphere that usually builds the confidence of the people around them and that includes the women that are on dates with them. The high level of maturity is one of the catalysts for confidence.
Men in their older phase of life will often have more time to spare for fun, adventure, exploration and enjoyment. Of course, he could own a business or have a career that takes up a lot of time, but the good thing is that he is in control and can schedule a date with you without having to ask permission or ask for time off. The opposite might be true for the younger man. In fact, the older man can leave work can leave work or his business on a Friday evening and fly the younger woman out for a weekend getaway without being concerned about money and time. The older man can also take time out for a long lunch date here or there, especially in many cases, he is his own boss.
Older men tend to be more established than younger men. In such case, he may already have a home or condominium, boat, vacation home and car. He has spent time gaining these things through hard work and dedication. He probably knows and loves nice things and wants to share it with a younger woman. He has taken time to make strategic investments and has accumulated wealth to live a certain lifestyle and to become financially independent.
Younger women might prefer to date older men as we mentioned before because of the money that he has to spend on her. He has saved his money over several years and has invested in various money-making ventures. He can afford to buy her nice gifts. He is able to pay the money for extravagant trips without maxing out his credit card. If the woman is lucky, this older man might be thinking about early retirement and then he would have more time to splurge and enjoy life.
Older men tend to be avid readers. They don't just read anything, but books that are meaningful. In addition, their experiences may have contributed to what they know. Younger woman love the idea of learning as much as they can from these older men and he is happy with sharing. You will always learn new things when you go out with someone older than you are. He will likely teach you restaurant etiquette or how to invest in the stock market with little risk.
Some older guys naturally know how to communicate and can be good conversationalist. Most of them are good at communicating than the younger guy. He probably has more experience carrying on memorable and meaningful conversations, even while being flirtatious on a date or at a bar. One thing that keeps him a god communication is his emotional stability.
Older men are much better at maintaining relationships than younger men can. Over the years, they might have interacted with more women than the younger man has done and for that reason have learned what makes a woman tick, how to treat her, what she likes and doesn't like and how to communicate with her. These men have probably gotten past all of the amateur and naive mistakes made by younger men in a relationship. Knowing that honesty is the best policy, they will oftentimes let women know of their expectations right off the bat. If something is not going right in the relationship, the younger woman will appreciate the fact that the older man will address it right away before it gets out of hand. And if things are working out the way he wants, he will likely not have to be pushed into moving the relationship along the way the woman wants it to be. They will definitely have increased interest in beginning a family in comparison with the younger guy.
When it comes to better sex and more intimacy, the older man knows his game. Even though, they might not have as much energy as the young person, these mature men know exactly what to do in bed. They know which parts of the woman's body to touch. There is a good chance that he has had more sex in his lifetime than the younger option. They might have learned a few things more, which the younger guy is still learning. They are probably not going to be having sex with selfish motives; just to ejaculate, but have a keen interest in the woman's satisfaction and pleasing her. They have had years of experience to perfect their sex lives.
Most women don't have to teach a mature guy about how to pick out a suit or how to tie a bow tie. Most of them already know how to figure that out. He has a good sense of style, knowing the type of clothes to wear on different occasions. He might have a clothing store that he loves to shop from and possible a special tailor who knows how to customize this clothing, just how he loves it. To cultivate a sense of style will oftentimes take experience as well as time that not many young guys have.
Fast food and cheap beer selection is not something associated with a mature man. He likely may have lost any interest in junk food and rather have chosen a healthier lifestyle. A drunken lifestyle is not usually the particular taste of most mature men with taste and style. He might know the names of fine wine and can recommend one to the woman. She would probably depend on him to do so.
Mature men have a sense of culture and are refined. He may be able to plan a date for the woman to see a nice film or to enjoy the theater for the first time. He may know a lot about history and museums and can name different paintings and its artist. In his home, you may see a polished style with special art, decor and furniture.
By the time an older man gets to his age, he might have already kicked certain habits such as having a terrible sweet tooth as the younger guy would. He may not gawk at a sexy woman on the street like a younger guy would. He simply knows how to act mature and sophisticated. His behavior might have earned him respect among his peers and in his community.
Unlike the younger guy, an older man will most likely open doors for women, offer her an umbrella as it rains and helps her up the stairs by holding her hand. He approaches dating with a sense of purpose and a positive attitude and that is one of the things most women look for. He is not setting out to change the woman, but to have her complement him as a companion.
Finally, the younger woman may consider an older man to be less critical and able to tolerate a strong woman. He is able to tame her as well. The younger woman loves the stability that the older man offers. He could be her calming force. As an authority, he can steer her in the right direction.
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