What do you do when your new casual hookup is someone you think you could be interested in? Well, first you come to AdultHookups to check out how to tell if your new hookup is girlfriend, and then see if you can swindle your way into her life! Go through all of the signs that your hookup is girlfriend material to see what your next steps should be. If you are already interested in her, this is a great first step. First you have to take into consideration how long you have known each other and how long you have been hooking up. If you've only hooked up once or twice, you may not know her well enough to know if the signs below really apply to her. Get to know her a little more before referring to these signs! If you have been hooking up for a month or more, you may be able to have a better idea of what she's about.
Laughter is one of the most important parts of any relationship. If you don't have the
same sense of humor, things probably won't work out in the end. There is nothing worse
than making a joke and having your partner sit there staring blankly at you while you
try explaining it.
If she can make you laugh, and you can make her laugh, it's a
really good sign! Laughter is important, and if you can keep one another laughing, you
are already five steps ahead of other relationships.
If you both can hang out with one another and not have sex, it means that you just enjoy each other's company. Sex is an important part to any relationship, but if she is happy just hanging out with you without getting physical, she likes you and enjoys your company. That is important to find a girl who can hang out without constantly touching you, this is how you know she is chill and can hang out. If you are chilling without sex, you are already on your way to having a relationship, and she definitely feels the same way.
Have you ever been in a situation where you are constantly thinking of another, better situation that you would rather be in? You would rather be at home, or at a friend's house playing video games... you would rather be watching a movie alone or on a walk. If you are comfortable and perfectly content hanging out with her, she is definitely girlfriend material. It is a really good sign if you legitimately enjoy their company and you can tell that they enjoy yours too.
If you have noticed that she doesn't talk badly about other people, she is totally a keeper! Sure, if she was having a bad day at work because of a rude customer or co-worker, it is alright to talk about it, but if she is talking absolute nonsense about people she is friends with or even people who she barely even knows, she is NOT girlfriend material. Stick with a girl who doesn't put up with drama. If she doesn't start drama in her personal life, then there is a good chance that she won't be starting drama with you.
There are so many materialistic women out there just waiting to find a man to $weep them off of their feet... If you find that your hookup is not materialistic and doesn't need the "best of everything", she is probably girlfriend material and definitely a keeper. If you yourself are materialistic, it may be a good fit for you to find someone who is also materialistic, but if you are looking for someone down to earth and someone who wants more from life than what money has to offer, you've found your girl!
Even though the two of you are only hooking up, she makes it a point to show you that she is interested in you and only you. She is never texting other people while she is spending time with you, and she has really no interest in other guys while she's with you or alone. If she is only flirting with you, she is girlfriend material. This is something that you should not take for granted because a lot of people flirt with many people when they are in relationships, so imagine what they do out of them!
Who wouldn't want someone who is supportive and compassionate towards your problems. If your hookup really cares about you and asks how you're doing on a regular basis, she is girlfriend material. A lot of the time, people assume that guys are okay because of the tough facade that most of you put up to seem untouched by the world. Having a woman who can see through that can be refreshing and extremely nice. This is definitely the type of person that you would want in your life.
Being authentic is one of the hardest things in the world for people to be, and even though all of us are different, we like to put up walls and act like we are all the same. If the woman you are hooking up with doesn't put up calls and is herself around you and everyone else without any apologies, she is girlfriend material! She doesn't worry or care about impressing anyone because all that she wants to be is happy, and to her, being herself is the best way to do so. With all of that, she is a woman who loves herself (not in an arrogant way). There is nothing more beautiful than that.
You can always tell whether a person is being genuine or not through the way they speak to you, through their body language and also through your intuition. Sometimes you feel like someone is kind and genuine, until they show their true colors. This is what we are trying not to do. Make sure to pick up on everything, put the pieces together and be true to yourself if you can tell that this person isn't very nice. You will be able to tell. It is nice to be with someone who is kind, and someone who genuinely doesn't want to hurt you. If she is a kind person, this is a great sign that she is girlfriend material.
Opening up to people can be hard for a lot of us, but if you are having a really easy time talking to your new hookup and feel maybe as if you've always known her, there is a great chance that she is girlfriend material and that the two of you would work on another level. Another thing that's great about being able to open up to someone is the fact that anyone worth opening up to is very compassionate and caring. Those are two very good qualities to give and receive when choosing a partner.
Are her crazy party days behind her? If so, she is probably more girlfriend material than she used to be. When we're young we enjoy going out, partying and meeting new people. If she enjoys hanging out, watching a movie, cooking and cuddling above all of that other stuff that really doesn't matter anymore, she is girlfriend material. Going out every once in a while doesn't mean that she would be a great girlfriend, but it only really matters if she is going out every single weekend.
Can you sit quietly with her without feeling that thick sense of awkwardness? Wonderful! That is a very good sign that you are both very comfortable with each other. Nothing is worse than having awkward silence before hooking up... If you are having that now when you are only casually together, you should re-think even doing that. Sure, nothing happens overnight but you should at least be comfortable with this person if you are taking your clothes off around them!
This is a great one! She defends you against whatever may come your way. If you are out and someone hits on her or says something to her about you, she will stand up for you with no hesitation. It is very important for both parties to always be on guard just in case they need to protect one another. It will not only grow your trust for each other but it will also make things a lot easier when you go out. Sometimes people have fears when going out with their partner about what is going to happen this time. When you are both fearless when it comes to sticking up for one another, things will be easier.
Last but not least, chemistry! If you have great chemistry, there's no telling where your relationship could take you. It is always very exciting to find someone who you connect with like no one else. You may be getting ahead of yourself since you guys are only hooking up at this point, but if all of the signs point to girlfriend material, there is no shame in taking a shot! What's the worst that could happen? If you don't have chemistry there is not even a point in taking a chance. Why would you? To find out later on that the both of you have nothing in common and that you would have better conversation talking to a grocery bag? Make sure that you have chemistry and good conversation! Those are very important when it comes to choosing someone to be with.
Wondering if your new hookup is girlfriend material? There are many ways to figure it out. First, you can always think of the kind of girlfriend you would want and when you get to know her a little better, see if she fits your guide to what girlfriend material is and if she fits your wants and needs. You can also go through our list of signs that will tell you whether she is girlfriend material or not. One of the most important parts of finding a great partner is someone who you can trust. If you feel comfortable and are able to open up to her about certain things that you feel you cannot tell anyone, this means that she is girlfriend material. If she can make you laugh just as hard as you can make her laugh, she is girlfriend material. If she is authentic and genuine, you guessed it, she is girlfriend material. There are so many ways of telling whether or not a woman is girlfriend material or not, but at the end of the day, you just have to listen to your heart. If you have the slightest chance that things may not work out or that she is up to no good, or doesn't like you as much as you like her, slow your roll! You don't have to figure everything out right now. Ride your wave and see what happens. We hope that this article has helped you as much as we would like it to.
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