It is hard to keep up with these dating trends today. There are so many of them and some of them intertwine while others stand on their own.

Breezing is one of the newer dating trends that some people embrace when they don't give a damn about their own actions. They don't even care about how that makes you feel. They will play mind games with you and usually are not genuine in their actions.

Breezing is basically a new dating trend that shows that someone does not give a hoot or care about what others think about them. The breezer is a carefree person, has a lot of inner confidence, but doesn't worry or is not too concerned about what he or she is supposed to do to make the dating relationship work.

The breezer speaks directly without reservations, trying to make a genuine point so that he or she can be forthright from the beginning.

We have become a generation of people who have been able to perfect the art of being difficult and playing hard to get. However, when we play hard to get and act as if we really don't care, then that is when it becomes obvious that we actually do care. Let us cut to the chase right now. You did see the text, but you want to wait long enough to let him or her think you don't give a hoot, but you are longing to answer the text because you do like the person, but just don't want them to know how much. Don't think you are fooling anyone. You are only fooling yourself. This is where the breezing trend comes in to change the whole thing. Suddenly, you are attainable.

So, you heard about kittenfishing, ghosting, submarining, sidebarring and stashing and now it is breezing. All of these dating trends are unique, but some of them do intertwine and complement each other. With breezing, you no longer care about the rules or anyone's expectations. You don't even care to be on the best behavior to please anyone. You go for what you want. You are entirely into yourself. It is all about you and so you do anything you want and just allow things to breeze on by you. You go with the flow.

When you do this, though, you should expect different outcomes. For one, you will avoid any stress that the situation may cause. You intensely analyze the situation and plan to hold off on sex, pretend to like a specific food, don't text first, but wait for the other person to do so and you pretend to like a certain activity so as not to put someone off. You let the person know what to expect for you so you do not slowly reveal yourself. You hate to waste time with pretending. You are able to weed out anyone who you think isn't right for you and you base this on who the individual reacts to your authenticity.

To get involved with breezing, you have to forget about playing games. Instead of delaying the response to a text, you should send a direct answer right away, just to be clear about your feelings and exactly what you want from the relationship. And try not to be hung up on anything, if the relationship doesn't work out. Instead, you should be more concerned about the respect and value you place in yourself. Breezing is allowing yourself to feel those feelings when they come upon you. You should never hold back your feelings, but feel free to express them openly. However, don't let your feelings or emotions take you over or even define you.

Unlike the stashing trend when an individual does not want to introduce you to their partner or kittenfishing, which is a dating trend where someone might use a dishonest picture to deceive you to thinking that it, is a picture of them, breezing now is nicer. There have been so many different dating methods around since times past, but breezing first came on the Internet in May of 2017. If you have experienced a lot of emotional trash and have terrible dating stories while trying to get a handle on some kind of romance or ongoing relationship, you might want to consider breezing.

The word, 'breezing' was coined to express when someone doesn't give a shit. The term was introduced by Jenna, wife of Channing Tatum in a declaration of her love. Jenna was a 'breezer' and didn't give a hoot about dating rules. She let him make his move and played him. She didn't care about gender roles. She just told him directly how she felt about him and held nothing back. You call that 'easy breezy.' To her, it was a relief because she could be herself and says what she meant and mean exactly what she said. With breezing, you don't have to be concerned about 'should have.' You just go for the juggler.

It is easier to just be unique. If you want to keep it real, then be yourself and breeze through dating relationships with ease and no attachments, if the other person does not declare their intentions. First of all, with breezing, it is not cool to play games via texting. If you like a person, don't play hard to get. Send a text response back immediately. Don't think it is cool to wait several days before responding. It is better to act quickly because there are so many options that the other person can consider. The dating landscape is constantly changing and you have to change with it.

You should also be kind and courteous in how you deliver your messages. Did you ever notice the way Southern women speak? They will say whatever is on their mind and they can get away with how they talk. Southern women will make flirtatious eye contact. They will smile while trying to get their point across. You should do the same with breezing. When there is something that you have to say, just put on a smile and appear breezy! When you are sending an email or texting for example, make sure you include an emoji (smiley face). This will show happiness and warmth and the person on the receiving end will know that you mean well and that even though, you are saying something direct, they should just understand that you are being real and stating your honest feelings.

If you want to find a committed relationship, which involves love and marriage, then you should go ahead and tell the person exactly what you want. Of course, you wouldn't do this on the first date. However, as you get accustomed to the person over a period of weeks, then it would be Ok to start talking about the future and your relationship goals. In doing so, if your future needs do not match the needs of your partner, then it is alright to just breeze out. You should not waste any more time on that relationship, which is not going in your direction or you will be disappointed.

When you go on the first date, don't say too much. Even though, you want to practice breezing, it doesn't mean that you have to offer too much information to the other person on the first date. Yes, you are going to be authentic, but not overly sharing things that need to wait for the right time to share. And more importantly, on your first date, avoid sharing things in your past such as a divorce, details about a sexual partner and bad relationships. Don't get so serious right away. Instead, put on your 'fun hat' and be real. Save the serious topics for subsequent dates in the future. You might scare your dates away if you share certain types of details on a first date.

As soon as you get that text message, be sure to respond or don't even wait to receive the text, in some cases. Go ahead and be the first one to text. That is what you call breezing.' It is saying how you feel about your immediate emotions. It is also ignoring silly things that would sometimes bother you. It is avoiding the arguments and getting rid of toxic feelings and toxic people around you and calling out their crap when you notice it. The most important rule in breezing is being direct, being as real as you can be and stop playing games.

What does breezing mean for the dating community? Is this something fun and is it similar to playing mind games? It is possibly not. However, it is an opportunity to be more open and more honest about what you desire and how you are feeling. It is best to show your true feelings. This could be an easy way to eliminate misunderstandings that may crop up when you are the one playing hard to get. With breezing, you wouldn't have to be checking the exact time to finally send a text message back in response to the other person and in so doing, you will be able to think about the other person by showing your feelings to them and being vulnerable.

Dating trends are sometimes complex and messy and in some cases, it can be very hurtful. Sometimes, the things you do can result in a disaster. For that reason, you might be putting in too much effort into something that really shouldn't be so difficult. Lucky for you, 'breezing' solves that problem. It changes the dynamics. It is worth trying to see if it alleviates some of the problems you had with dating in the past.

Breezing has a lot to being and staying real throughout the dating relationship. Forget about the rules of dating where you are told that you shouldn't be the first one to text a guy after meeting him or that you don't want to appear needy, if you do. If you feel like being the first one to text or text him because you just feel like doing it, then breezing allows you to do just that. Do what the hell you want and don't think about what he will think about you, if you send the first text. At least, he will see that you are a woman that knows what she wants and not afraid to go for it.

Breezing could throw him a curve ball too. Even though, you don't intend to play games, it might come off like that. For example, if he didn't pick up the phone and call you as he promised and he expects you to be upset, breezing allows you to take on a carefree attitude. You acting as if you don't give a hoot about anything he does and he is mystified because most women will go off on him in a heartbeat and he might be wondering why you haven't. He definitely will wonder what is happening with you when nothing is going on. You are just a cool person that knows how to use the 'breezing' method.

With breezing, you live in the moment and don't put all emphasis on the future. Don't worry about things like when you will know if he is into you or not or when you both will make your relationship official. These are the things that spoil the fun in the relationship - when you are too focused on the serious stuff and not enjoying each other's company. You only let your impulses lead you and do what makes you happy in the moment.

With breezing, you find that because you don't take things so seriously, you forget about the dating rules and just go with the flow. It is all about what makes you feel OK. If it doesn't feel good, then walk away or let it be known how you feel without holding back. Breezing takes away the stress that sometimes comes with dating. It is not about having a fulfilled relationship, but having the individual in your life.

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