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How To Know If Your Hookup Is Really A Serial Killer

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Strange, I know, but there have been many cases where people have met up with serial killers, some get away clean and others end up elsewhere. If you are seriously worried that the person you are hooking up with is a serial killer, you should probably stop seeing them. That would be step one. Step two would be to go through all of the signs below to see if he qualifies. Dating or hooking up with a serial killer is one of those things that you would rather not get into. It is not the biggest turn on and it could leave you in a very serious problem... or a ditch.

If you are planning on meeting up with anyone, make sure to meet in a public area and before going to their home or letting them in yours, make sure you are comfortable with them and get good feelings about them. Your intuition always knows when there is trouble around and if you have one small feeling that you could be in danger by this person, get out as soon as you can and head home. Also, make sure that they aren't following you, that would definitely work against you.

They Are Into Cannibalism/Hard Bites

If you have had conversations about cannibalism and they are totally alright with the idea, you probably shouldn't hook up with them. Cannibalism is terrifying and if this person doesn't see that, they are obviously a sociopath. Nothing good can come out of dating a sociopath. A little nibble during sex isn't all that bad, and some people are very much into it, but if you have already hooked up with this person and have been bitten to the point where you have teeth marks or have shed blood, there is a chance that this person is a serial killer.

Anything overly aggressive in the bedroom can be a red flag. When we say overly aggressive we mean overly aggressive. A little spank or choking never hurt anyone, but if you are being punched while having sex, there may be an issue.

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They Don't Want You To Go Into Their Basement

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They bring you to their house, and you start getting bad feelings... like something terrible has gone on before. You get the shivers and feel that you would like to go home... there isn't much that you can do once you get inside other than think of an escape route if anything were to go wrong. If you hear the words "Don't go down into the basement", there is something being hidden. Watch a few horror movies and you will figure that out pretty quickly.

They Know Everything About You Before Meeting You

If you find yourself saying, "Have I mentioned that before?" and their answer being no, you are definitely hooking up with a nut. Mostly everyone does a little bit of research before going out on a date with anyone, but it's mostly what their last name is. If this person knows weird details about you that they shouldn't, this is probably a good time to stop contacting them. If you aren't sure about someone, also make sure that they don't know where you live, that can be a terrifying thought. Someone trying to get into your house... *Shutter*! If you are leaving this person's house or are leaving them on a date make sure that they aren't following you. If you notice that they are, take them on a nice drive around town everywhere but to where you live!

Are They A Narcissist or Sociopath?

When you think of serial killers, usually the words narcissist and sociopath come up quite a bit. There is something a little bit off about them, well, a lot off, but here are some ways to know whether you have been seeing a narcissist or a sociopath:

Characteristics Of A Narcissist

Narcissistic personality disorder has to do with a distorted self-image. Narcissists see themselves in a way that not everyone else does. Narcissists have many different characteristics. If you notice that the person you are seeing has five or more of these traits, there is chance that they are a narcissist. Being extremely jealous when you aren't getting the attention you want. So, if you are out with this person and they become extremely jealous because someone else is looking at you and they try fighting them, this would be an example of being narcissistic. Feeling easily rejected by people is a huge trait of narcissists. They have trouble maintaining healthy relationships. If they have told you about many relationships that they have been in and say that they have all ended because of the other person, it probably isn't true. If they have an expectation of special treatment, they can be considered narcissistic. They have fantasies inside and outside of their own brain about their own success and power. They have a lack of empathy for anyone but themselves, they want to be constantly praised and told that they are doing well, and they respond to criticism with anger instead of understanding. If your hookup has most of these personality traits, it could in fact be that they are not only a narcissist but also a serial killer! I mean, if you were having such strong feelings that you had to look it up, you may be right!

Characteristics Of A Sociopath

Sociopaths are very twisted with the way they think and the way they act towards certain people. If you are dealing with someone who is a sociopath, you may want to re-think your hookup! First, take a look at this person and ask yourself if they have these traits. If they are way too charming to be real, and have good intelligence, this is your first sign of a sociopath. Being unreliable is a trait that most sociopaths hold. They have extremely irrational thinking and have no idea what to do with information you give them to understand. They do not understand anything that they don't already think or believe in their own minds. They feel no sense of remorse, grief or shame, which definitely ties into the whole serial killer thing. They have an incapacity to love or feel loved. They have a loss of insight and have a really tough time following any type of life plan. Sociopaths are toxic and can be the worst relationship you have ever had. If you notice that your hookup as any of these personality traits, you may want to rethink your relationship. There are so many other nice people out there and even though you are only hooking up with this person, they aren't nice to be around. Most serial killers are sociopaths, so if you were worried about your hookup being one before, and have read this and they have most of the traits, there is a chance that this could be for real.

Talks Way Too Much About Death

This is a topic that some of us like to go over quite a bit, but not to the extent of some. If your hookup is constantly talking about death, you may have a serial killer in your hands. If they are talking about death in a normal way like "I wonder what happens after we die" and stuff like that, it is alright, but if they go in detail about what they like about death and killing... well, you are smarter than that. Unless you are into that type of stuff too, you may want to steer clear of any strange killing talk. If you are looking for a hookup that isn't so heavy on the death talk, maybe try talking about kittens or balls of yarn. See how that goes over with them! If they are cool with talking about kittens, they probably are not a serial killer.

Stay Away From....

There are a lot of different red flags to stay away from if you are making sure that the person you are going to meet up with is in fact not a serial killer. Whenever you see one of those small, blurry pictures on someone's dating profile, the first thing you think of is how that person doesn't want to be seen because of their appearance and the second thing that would go through your mind is how they are probably a serial killer. One of the two are usually correct. Either way, it's best not to meet up with someone who you aren't too sure about. Something else that you should stay away from when trying to dodge those serial killers is someone who becomes angry and aggressive when you don't respond quickly enough. Normal, level-headed people often understand that sometimes life gets in the way and sometimes people are busy. If this person comments on how long it takes you to respond to them and becomes aggressive, do not go and meet them. If someone can become so upset over a late response, you know that they can get a lot more angry over other things. If they start writing to you in different codes - definitely a serial killer. You should stay away from them if code writing starts. If they ask you where you live even though you haven't yet agreed to meet up, this is a huge red flag that they will come to your house and possibly kill you. Sometimes people are curious about the area you live in or if you two somehow live close to one another, but if he or she is asking quietly out of the blue, this is a red flag to stop talking to them. Another way of telling whether or not someone is a little bit crazy is if they use "I" or "Me" a lot when you talk to them. If someone is a narcissist, it brings them closer to being a full blown serial killer.

Listen To Your Heart and Intuition

If you had no idea that this person was going to be so creepy until you met for the first time, make sure that you are in public so that you can run away when you need to. Sometimes people don't listen to their heart because they don't want to know the truth, but the real truth is that no one will ever be more faithful than your own heart. Whatever it tells you is real and if you know that, you will be able to dodge all of the serial killers out there! Don't say "I'm sure i'll be fine" or "He seems nice enough"... If there is anything the matter with how he is being towards you or just his energy in general, there is probably something.

Are You Hooking Up With A Serial Killer?

If you are really that worried about the guy you are hooking up being a serial killer, there are lots of ways to find out if he is for sure. You can do a background check, look around online using his name, or you can even walk down into his basement to see what's going on down there. If all you find are old newspapers and clutter, you're in the clear! Look up his name online to see what is really going on in his life and whether or not your intuition has been telling you the truth or not. There are also some people who are not registered online. You may want to get a background check done if you aren't sure about who you are dealing with.

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