Would you like to know how to dominate your in the bedroom? We can show you how! Every women out there loves it when a man takes charge and does things to them that makes them feel alive, but every now and then we like to turn the tables on our men and give them pleasure they can't even imagine. We want to show you that we can be rough and that we can dominate. You should be allowed to dominate your man in bed every once in a while. However, how do you do that? How do you just take charge of the situation and release your inner animal? We are here to help you find this out and see what works for you. It might not be something you do all the time or you might only ever want to do it again, we are here to help you gain some confidence. Being dominant is very much hand in hand with being confident. That is why confident people have more sex and are more successful in life.

What if you could take that part of your life and transfer it to your work life. Imagine having that confidence in the bedroom and in the office. You would be one powerful and sexy lady. This article will help you harness a side of you that you may not even know existed. This is your time to try something new and shake things up. Life is boring if you are always letting him do everything. You have your own thoughts and your own needs. You like it a certain way. Why not take it? Why not have it the way you want! This is sexy and the two of you are ready to party and to have some fun. We will help you gain confidence and take over the world. You are a sexy a powerful woman! You got this!

Next time the two of you are going at it, you need to just take control right away. Throw him down and climb on top. You need to be the leader of this mission and you make the rules. Get forceful, ask him to spank you. You can take a slap on your behind, trust us. Your man will be blown away by you just taking charge. He will get so turned on and probably let you do whatever you wanted to him. As well, taking charge might not mean overpowering him, it might mean just initiating the moment. Maybe you are at a party and you pull him into the coat room to make out. Doing something like this to surprise him, will have him begging for more. He will go insane over you even more than he already does. Being assertive and being dominant will make him want you more, he might even let you take control more often.

Here is the thing about being a girl, when we were all growing up, the boys had PLAYBOY magazines. Girls had romance novels. We had books that told us about passion. We were put on this earth of passion and you don't give that to us because you grew up with porn. We grew up with passion. If you aren't giving us the passion we desire, we need to take matters into our own hands and put out all of the passion! That is something that is very important to us all.

You have to know that girls in general need passion. If there is no passion, then what is the point? You are just having some sort of boring sex that doesn't even matter. If you throw even a hint of passion in to the mix, then you are good to go. You will have each other feeling more alive and more passionate than ever. It's a good thing. Use it. Harness it. Passion is key.

A lot can be said with body language, but sometimes you just need to tell him what to do. It can be something as simple as "sit on the bed","take your pants off", or "go down on me". You need to know that there is more to being dominant than just taking control of the situation. You need to make it known what you want from him. You need to tell him exactly what you want and how you want it. Tell him. Don't ask him. Make sure he knows that tonight, you are calling the shots. As well, when you are in bed together, make sure that you are still vocal about what you like about him and how much you love having sex with him. You still need to give him some dirty talk so he knows that he turns you on. This will, in turn, turn him on as well. You will drive him crazy in the best way possible.

You need to let your partner know that you can do both dominant and submissive roles and that you would like the both of you to start acting like switches. It should be fair. Always have a safe word and always know what the others limits are. When he sees that you can take control. He will happily switch it up with you. This will also strengthen your bond with your partner because you two will be on a level playing field and no one is dominating one person more than the other. It is a beautiful thing when that lines up.

Being a switch isn't always equal, one of you might still be one of the categories a bit more often. As long as you switch it up every once and again, then you are golden when it comes to dominating and having fun with each other. Make sure, you both are happy with the way that things are going. This can be a very fulfilling relationship if you are both on the same page about how great you both are together.

There is a thin line that runs between sexy and mean. There is a chance it could get crossed when you are trying to be dominant with your man. You need to tell him he's been a bad boy, not that he is a bad person. You need him to feel naughty and not attacked. You want him to want you and for him to not feel humiliated. There is something very sexy about being the power in the couple but don't be mean to him because you feel tough and strong. You need to know the difference and know what not to say to keep him in the mood.

It might be exciting to take control, but that doesn't mean you have to be in full control. Show him that you are the boss but you are open to suggestions. For a woman who this is their first time breaking in the brand new whip, this can be helpful. Very helpful, in fact. This can help you work your way into being more dominant in your relationship. They will go with you and once you learn to be more vocal and direct about what you want and how you want it, this whole thing will get easier. Just keep at it. You don't need to go from zero to black leather catsuit.

There is a good chance that you might go too far one night just out of sheer passion. Take this as a good thing, you let yourself go and you did something that is outside of your comfort zone and we bet that it felt amazing. You just need to have fun and do your thing. Let yourself go. The more you let go, the more you become more in control.

Whether it's a light love tap on the bum or a full blown smack with a wooden paddle, you need to make sure that you are both on the same page when it comes to stopping. That is why a safe word is handy. Sometimes, in the heat of the moment something might hurt so you yell stop but you don't mean it. That is why you need a safe word. Your body will let you know if you need to stop. Your partner will stop the moment you say that safe word. That is the deal. Always cover your bases.

When you are taking control of the situation, you can always use a little bit a physical discipline so they learn. Maybe a tight hair pull, maybe a bite on the collar bone. Claw his back up a bit. You can even break a little but a skin if you need to. Don't go crazy and stab him or something. But make it known you know what you are doing and that you aren't afraid to dole out some punishment. Men love it when women get a little rough with them. It shows that they are really passionate about them. It's hot. It's uncontrollable. You might even end up slapping him across the face out of sheer sexual drive. Your pipes will be ready to explode in no time. Grab at each other and make it known how badly you want him.

The best part about being more dominant with your man is great and can give you a ton of confidence in the bedroom that you should be moving to your everyday life. That feeling you get when you take charge of the situation, you need to start having that attitude in your personality. You need to ask for that raise at work, you need to tell your in laws that you know how to raise your kids. If you move that confidence around you will some amazing changes in your life. It will build up your self esteem and it will make you feel alive. You will be large and in charge!

If you ever look at someone successful and think I wonder how they got there? Well, we can basically guarantee that they are very confident and take control of every situation that they are in. If you can move the dominance and power you feel in the bedroom, into your real life, you could run the world. Life is too short to work for someone else. Be a boss babe.

When you take control of the situation, you are not only proving it to your man, but you are proving it to yourself that you are a hot piece of ass who can dominate any situation. You are a strong and powerful woman, you can take charge, you can be the boss! You are the girl who can have it all. Take this time to learn how to control that feeling and eventually you will be able to put it out there in your everyday life. Be dominant everywhere, not just the bedroom. We hope that we helped you find your way and that you can grab life by the balls (the metaphorical balls, that is)!

Did we answer all of your questions? If so, then why not take a peek at our other informative sex advice guides NOW RIGHT HERE!

Want to know how to get ready for an impromptu booty call? Find out now by reading our article HERE!